Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Pride and Predjudice

I am reading one of my most favorite books…again. I have lost count as to how many times I have read this book. Last year I needed to get my fix & went through it in a day! I don’t read fast & missed a bit of the story by going through it that speedily, but I had to get to the end where Elizabeth & Mr. Darcy start a more friendly relationship. Yes, my children were still fed & the clothes got washed but I got that book read fast so I could return to my life.
I sometimes devour books of the Bible like that, but not really. My desire isn’t always for that kind of knowledge even though I know my well being is at stake. It’s hard to read sometimes, and very convicting at others. But oh! It can be so encouraging & uplifting when you need it to be. When my Super Sweet spent his 4 wks. in the hospital after being born 2 months early it was the book of Psalms that I turned to for my comfort, peace & encouragement to endure the trial. It helped me to rejoice that I have a great God in charge of all things. It was the Great Physician that sustained my baby’s health, that enabled him to thrive with minimum medical intervention & helped him to get out of the hospital so fast. I don’t believe every mother in there felt the same peace I did, but I couldn’t have gotten through that time without it. Oh! If only I would devote my time to the Holy Word more often then I would be better equipped to fend off the temptations that lurk in my home & mind. If only I had the desire to devote more of my time to the Word. I think now is a good time to do it.

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Friday, June 20, 2008

Another day, Another dollar

Today was another blissful day. The weather was up & down, but still pleasant. We went to get milk this morning (we go every Monday & Friday) & today we stayed a bit longer. Franz (our farmer in the next village) only has the younger calves in the barn & a couple of bulls during the summer so there was more romp room. After I got the milk Bean asked if they could see the kuh (that’s cow in German). Now, Franz only understands one word in her question & it is kuh. He gave his approval, as always, & the littles were gone. They had a great time feeding the younger cows & squealed each time they got licked. Now, we have been going to Franz for over 2 years & each time my children find it to be the best time. Once last summer they were laying on top of one cow that was resting. I think she was close to having her calf & that is way she was in there. She didn’t mind their attention & our kind farmer truly enjoys their lively playing & we will miss him when it is God’s time for us to leave this beautiful country & our kind neighbors. However, we’ll be here at least another 1 1/2yrs so there is no need to dwell on that.
It is so much fun to watch my children run, laugh & play & learn. I am so glad that God has put it into my heart to homeschool them. I feel that I am being true to my calling as a mother because of homeschooling: I am with my children more, able to protect them a little longer from certain dangers, I get to decide what they learn & who they play with. What would I do without these 4 blessings that keep my days long & haggard? I am so happy to have each of them! I probably learn more teaching them then I ever did in school. No amount of my previous education outside of home prepared me for motherhood. Nothing I heard from the media ever told me that this was so worthwhile & no feminist would ever approve of my choice of career. I have a great life!!! Praise my great God in heaven for all I have been entruseted with!!!

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What is wrong with this?

LAW OF THE LAND
Dad grounds daughter, but court ungrounds her
‘Parents are going to be walking on egg shells from now on’


Posted: June 18, 2008
10:01 pm Eastern

© 2008 WorldNetDaily

Parents beware. You may be losing the right to discipline your children.

A father in Canada had grounded his daughter from going on a school trip because she disobeyed his orders to stay off the Internet. But a court has now overturned the punishment.

According to Agence France-Presse, Justice Suzanne Tessier in Quebec Superior Court ordered the grounding for the 12-year-old girl lifted, prompting the father’s lawyer, Kim Beaudoin, to warn, “Parents are going to be walking on egg shells from now on.”

The father had ordered the daughter, who was not identified by the report, to remain off the Internet. She didn’t, chatting on websites her father had tried to block and then posting “inappropriate” pictures of herself online using a friend’s Internet portal.

As punishment, the father refused to let her go on a scheduled school trip, so the 12-year-old went to Canada ’s judicial system to get her way.

Beaudoin told AFP the punishment was for her own protection and is pursuing an appeal.

“She’s a child,” Beaudoin said. “At her age, children test their limits and it’s up to their parents to set boundaries.”

She said she’ll try to “re-establish” parental authority and to make sure the judge’s opinion doesn’t set a precedent.

“I think most children respect their parents and would never go so far as to take them to court, but it’s clear that some would and we have to ask ourselves how far this will go,” she said.

Court records indicated the violation of her home’s Internet rules was just one in a list of instructions that she had violated. But Tessier said the punishment was just too much.

The 12-year-old reportedly had access to the courts using a court-appointed attorney representing her in her parents’ custody dispute.

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Police State, Germany

POLICE STATE, GERMANY
Parents sent to jail for homeschooling
‘Words escape me, it’s unconscionable, incredible, shocking,’ says attorney


Posted: June 18, 2008
1:54 pm Eastern

By Bob Unruh
© 2008 WorldNetDaily

A mother and father who have been homeschooling their children each have been ordered by a German judge to serve three-month prison terms after a prosecutor said he was unhappy with fines the family paid and he wanted the parents jailed.

The sentences for Juergen and Rosemarie Dudek were announced in Germany ’s equivalent of a district court today in the state of Hesse, according to a staff attorney for the Home School Legal Defense Association. The group, the premier homeschooling advocacy organization in the world, has been monitoring and helping in the Dudeks’ case since before a federal prosecutor announced his intention more than a year ago to see the parents behind bars.

“Words escape me, it’s unconscionable, incredible, shocking,” HSLDA staff attorney Mike Donnelly told WND after he got word of the sentence. “They’ll appeal of course.”

He said the prosecutor’s agenda is clear, with the mindset: “You guys are rebelling against the state. We’re going to punish you.”

Donnelly said work was begun immediately to pursue an appeal through the court system in the German state.

He described the sentences as “breathtaking.”

It was just a year ago when WND reported the prosecutor, Herwig Muller, appealed a lower court’s imposition of fines against the Dudeks.

The prosecutor said at the time he would demand jail sentences of three months each for the parents. Muller also said he would not permit the case to be resolved with probation for the parents.

A newspaper reporter in Hesse, Harald Sagawe, said the parents previously paid fines because “they did not send their children to school, for religious reasons.”

He continued, “The parents, Christians who closely follow the Bible, teach their children themselves. Two years ago the court had also dealt with the Dudeks. That case, dealing with the payment of a fine, had been dropped.”

Judge Peter Hobbel, who imposed the fines, also criticized school officials for refusing to answer the family’s request for approval of their “private school.”

Arno Meissner, the chief of the government’s local education department, said he would enforce the mandatory school attendance law against the family, and he said he resented the judge’s interference.

“His duty is to make a judgment when the prosecutor brings a charge and to stay out of administrative matters,” Meissner said at the time.

The attitude is typical of some officials in Germany , where homeschooling has been stamped on since the Nazi era, critics say.

Practical Homeschool Magazine has noted one of the first acts by Hitler when he moved into power was to create the governmental Ministry of Education and give it control of all schools and school-related issues.

In 1937, the dictator said, “The youth of today is ever the people of tomorrow. For this reason we have set before ourselves the task of inoculating our youth with the spirit of this community of the people at a very early age, at an age when human beings are still unperverted and therefore unspoiled. This Reich stands, and it is building itself up for the future, upon its youth. And this new Reich will give its youth to no one, but will itself take youth and give to youth its own education and its own upbringing.”

Joerg Grosseleumern, a spokesman for the the Netzwork-Bildungsfreiheit, a German homeschool advocacy group, said in Hesse a family’s failure to follow the mandatory public school attendance laws violates not only administration regulations but the criminal code.

“It is embarrassing the German officials put parents into jail whose children are well educated and where the family is in good order,” he wrote in an earlier alert about the situation. “We personally know the Dudeks as such a family.”

Officials in Hesse have said not even the family’s efforts to move out of the region would halt their prosecution.

HSLDA officials estimate there are some 400 homeschool families in Germany , virtually all of them either forced into hiding or facing court actions.

Just weeks ago, WND reported the Dudeks warned about a new German federal law that also gives family courts the authority to take custody of children “as soon as there is a suspicion of child abuse,” which is how the nation’s courts have defined homeschooling.

“The new law is seen as a logical step in carving up family rights after a federal court had decided that homeschooling was an abuse of custody,” said the letter from Juergen Dudek to the HSLDA.

The letter said local “youth welfare” offices’ new authority includes “withdrawal of parental custody as one of the methods for punishing ‘uncooperative’ parents.”

Wolfgang Drautz, consul general for the Federal Republic of Germany, has commented on the issue on a blog, noting the government “has a legitimate interest in countering the rise of parallel societies that are based on religion.”

Drautz said schools teach socialization, and as WND reported, that is important, as evident in the government’s response when a German family in another case wrote objecting to police officers picking their child up at home and delivering him to a public school.

“The minister of education does not share your attitudes toward so-called homeschooling,” said a government letter in response. “… You complain about the forced school escort of primary school children by the responsible local police officers. … In order to avoid this in future, the education authority is in conversation with the affected family in order to look for possibilities to bring the religious convictions of the family into line with the unalterable school attendance requirement.”

In recent years Germany has established a reputation for cracking down on parents who object, for reasons ranging from religious to social, to the nation’s public school indoctrination of their children.

WND has reported several times on custody battles, children being taken into custody and families even fleeing Germany because of the situation.

One of the higher-profile cases on which WND has reported was that of a teen who was taken by police to the psychiatric ward because she was homeschooled.

The courts ruled it was appropriate for a judge to order police officers to take Melissa Busekros, 15 at the time, into custody in January 2007.

Officials later declined to re-arrest her after she turned 16. She was subject to different requirements and simply fled state custody and returned to her family

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Thursday, June 19, 2008

Hello

I thought this color would look nice since my Peanut is sitting beside me. But wouldn’t you know it, she is mad that I am using it & she isn’t. There’s no pleasing some little girls. I think she is feeling better about it now though. Well, my ankle is feeling better now, but still a bit sore. I will test it out driving in about 45 mins. Oh yeah, I tested it this morning while cleaning the bathroom. Stooping down to clean the shower & behind the toilet was very uncomfortable. I am just thankful that I wasn’t seriously hurt. I have just been reading LazyD Ranch website & been reminded about how blessed I am. She lost her husband a few months ago & he was only 40years old. Makes me want to clean that bathroom all over again with a thankful heart (it’s my dear husband’s bathroom).
Our day today started off sunny & seeming to be warm. But now the breeze is moving through the trees, the clouds are shifting in & I think it will rain tonight. We must need it. I don’t mind it so much though, I have a home to keep me warm & dry & 4 littles to keep my company. We are in the talks of getting bunks for our girls & they are so excited. DS #1 wants a set for him & Super Sweet, but ds#2 is only 7 months old & no where near being ready for bunks. Although, all the other children were put in big beds at age 1 it doesn’t seem that far off after all. But our Super Sweet is a tiny little for 7 mos., but big for a preemie.
I was talking with my neighbor the other day (she’s waiting for baby #3 to arrive) & we were talking about labor & pains & all that good stuff that women of childbearing years who homeschool have nothing else to talk about. (It was a good talk, again.) I was recalling to her about hearing a few ladies in labor while I was trying not to have mine & told her I could hear other women yelling. In Germany they encourage you to have natural birth so these women were yelling a lot. While lying in my bed hearing all this I thought, “I am so glad I don’t have to go through all that pain!” She & I had a good laugh because she is one of those women that delivers her babies (what a blessing) & I am one of those women that lies strapped to the table while they take my babies out (what a blessing).
I just saw the time & realize that my time is short & must go for today. Now I have to insert a face to make Peanut happy. Cool
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Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Happy Day Indeed

I just tried posting but it got lost in space.
In our village, as in most, we have a burgerhaus (like a town hall). There are different activities there weekly & it other events. On Tuesdays, they have gymnastics (play time) for 6-13yo. DS #1 likes going there, except yesterday was the last time for the summer. After it was over we were standing out front talking & I fell & hurt my ankle. I just knew it was broken & that ds would have to run home & get his dad to bring the car for me. Sure, it’s only a minute walk, but when you’re hurt… Anyway, I stood up & hobbled home & up a flight of stairs. Once in I helped dd#2 eat some erdbeeren (strawberries) & clean the kitchen. After that was done I limped up the stairs to my room & announced that I was down for the night. DH asked why that I was & once he knew of my injury he was very helpful.
I am better today but still hurt a bit. School hasn’t really happened & ds is not complaining about that. Although this afternoon we will do Bible study & math, two very important subjects I might add. We have a beautiful day for bike riding, but we won’t be able to do that either. I guess I’ll just do laundry & whatever. Speaking of homeschooling. I read that another German family is going to court today to try & stay out of jail for homeschooling their 7 children. I pray the Lord will move the judge to rule in favor of the family. Illegal homeschooling is one of the few laws left over from Hitler. Another is taxing churches. Many Germans don’t attend church because of the mandetory tax. He sure knew how to raise up a generation for his cause & keep God out of the family. May the Lord help us all to raise up our children for His service!
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Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Trying Again

I am trying this yet again. I think I picked a giant font size though. Oh well, I just can’t seem to get with the program. I am ok with that too.
I decided to take my children to the pool yesterday, but didn’t tell them right away. I like surprises… giving & receiving them. So, we started off doing school & laundry while I packed as much in secret. Needless to say it didn’t take long for the sisters to follow me to my room & start quizzing me as to why my bathing suit was out. Then it was off to tell the big brother all their news. At this point school went much faster & slower for him. When he gets excited he can’t focus. He starts asking questions & making suggestions & then I start with the “do your work” all again. Once re-directed he took off with his work. I did let him skip a subject that took us all of 5 mins. to do today. 
The sisters were a big help getting their suits out & on & gathering other things that we needed to go. Off we went & had a blast. We started off in the children’s pool, just a few inches deep, then after lunch it was to the “big” pool. It’s really the mid-size pool, but it’s big to my crowd & has a slide. Big E went down several times & laughed so much each time that he took in much water. He’s getting better about swimming, but I can’t give him to much detail while watching a baby on the side in his carrier & 2 sisters jumping off the ladder to me. (This time the sisters had on the life jackets so I wasn’t as nervous for them.) Each was patient for their turn to have me catch them & it was a lovely way to wear ourselves out.
Today is much cooler, more because of the breeze, but still really nice. According to the weather folks it is supposed to be really cold tomorrow (10 centigrade) with some storms. Well, at least we don’t have to go anywhere tomorrow so we can avoid all of that. Quiet time has ended & don’t you know that Peanut was the first to find me. That girl still has not accepted the fact that we are not connected & it’s been 5 years. I don’t really mind, it’s nice to have her love. Smile
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Monday, June 9, 2008

Just Babble

Well, I’ve been absent for a few days but am really here. I wasn’t sure what type of blog site would work best for new adventure so I also have another site. I wrote on that one last & should link to it I guess.
I was just looking at a few other sites & these women had what is called the Quiverfull blog roll. Now, I want to know how I can get on that list. I also want to know how to make my site prettier. I am not all that computer apt to the job. Why has my color changed? No really, why? I was trying to check the spell check, don’t see it, and next thing I know my color is grey. Ok, now what has happened? No, still can’t fix the problem. My dh is asking questions, baby sitting on my lap drooling, Peanut sitting on my foot & I can’t fix my post!!! This is funny!! I did it & am not too sure how I did it. Thank you Lord that I found this funny & didn’t get upset. If only all things were this simple to fix.
I may have had something amusing to say, but the craziness of the past 4 mins. had run that right out of my mind. I will even leave it like this so all can enjoy the wild life I am living. As if my life is any more crazy or harder then anothers. But then again, I’m only living my life & trying to stick to just that.
Peanut has stood up & now wants me to push some letters on the keyboard so she can see where they are. And then the color is black & all who know her know that anything short of any shade of pink is all wrong. I think I’ll feed the baby & come back later when my helpers are in bed. Smile BTW, Peanut doesn’t like the face I choose so here is one for her. Kiss
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